5 Time Management Tips for Parents to help you stay
Organised and Make life easier for you and your children every day.
Everyone is busy, whether they have children at home or not, but
when you have children, you have to manage both your own
and their schedules. The task
of completing it all may become more complex and challenging as
a result.
This is where time management comes into play, and these 5 tips and
strategies will help you improve your daily life without worrying
about missing appointments or having days that are too long
and tiring.
Keep a Calendar for the Family Updated
and Organised.
If you don't know
what needs to be done, it's impossible to plan your day or your week. For this
reason, a calendar of some kind—whether it be printed on paper, one that is
electronic, or one that combines the two—is crucial.
A family calendar is no longer a luxury but rather a necessity when you have to coordinate multiple schedules due to how challenging this task becomes. Everyone must be able to check in one location to determine who must be present where and when. If not, double booking or overbooking will inevitably occur, which you want to avoid.
An online calendar that can be synced across the entire family, like Google calendars, maybe your best option if you need to take into account the schedules of several people.
For everyone to
look at the calendar together at the breakfast table each morning and plan the
day as a team, you may also need to keep a paper calendar for those family
members without smart devices. Additionally,
a lot of people prefer to keep their family calendar there, along with a lot of other information that the entire family needs to share and be aware of.
This area is known as the "command centre" in the home.
Meal planning is key when it comes to time and money-saving
strategies.
You and your family
will want to eat, every single day. Unavoidable,
I'd say 😊
Making your plans
now is best because preparing meals takes up a sizable portion of each day. You
can use it to budget your time and money for grocery shopping all at the same
time.
When you have a
plan for your meals, you can buy everything at once to avoid making multiple
trips to the store, prepare any meals in advance, and select meals that will
take the least amount of time to prepare and consume on that particular day,
this is especially handy if you have football practise sessions on the evening.
Create a basic menu
plan for at least your evening meals by sitting down at least once a month, or
perhaps every week if that works better for you. It would be ideal if you had a plan for your
breakfast and lunch – But I don’t bother with that, because I know what packed
lunch the kids have each day, and my husband usually eats lunch at work.
If you have a
monthly plan, you can divide this up week by week for grocery shopping needs or
do large batch cooking once a month so your evening meals only require pulling
a freezer bag out, thawing it, and popping it into the slow cooker.
There are also a few free printables included here that can aid in meal planning.
Weekly Meal Planner - Click Here
Weekly Meal Planner - Click Here |
Use a timer
When you are focused on a task, whether it is enjoyable or not,
it is incredibly easy to lose track of time.
You look up and have no idea how much time has passed, and are often
surprised by how quickly time seemed to pass (or how slowly it crawled, if it
wasn't a fun task).
Social media, television, and even reading a good book are
among the enjoyable activities that can take up a lot of time. The downside is
that you might become bogged down in more time-consuming
tasks or decide not to start them at all if you think you
won't have time to complete them. I've
discovered that you can solve either of these issues
by using a timer.
To give your mind a good break while not wasting too much time, give yourself, for example, 30 minutes to browse social media before stopping and doing something else.
On the other hand, if a task overwhelms you, break it down into
smaller ones and then set an alarm. I have alarms for
everything. I used to have two alarms to
remind me to pick the children up from school, in case I got stuck into a task
and forget about the time– Let me just say - I NEVER forgot about the time – I just wanted to make
sure I didn’t. I have an alarm to tell
me when to take my medication. Alarms are
just part of my everyday life now.
The 30 Days to an Organized Kitchen Challenge will employ
precisely that tactic. It is effective for that overwhelming task and is also
applicable to any other overwhelming task you must complete.
You'll be surprised at how much you can accomplish in and
around your home with this easy trick.
Say "no" more
frequently.
Understanding that
we only have 24 hours in a day and that we cannot fill them up with more
activities and expect to complete everything is one of the keys to effective
time management. We are not required to
do anything just because someone asks us to.
We need the ability
to say no so that we can put our own needs and wants ahead of other people's
expectations. If you are going to agree
to something, make sure it will advance your goals as well as theirs.
Making sure you
don't double or triple book yourself, especially by scheduling in family time
or personal time to ensure these things don't get neglected, will help you with
this. Use your family calendar to this end.
Simply say no to
things that do not benefit you or bring you joy.
Reduce the number of things on
your to-do list.
You do need to say
no more frequently, as I already mentioned. That advice was intended to help
you say no to people who try to pressure you into doing things that, in all
honesty, you don't have the time or desire to do. However, there are times when you are under
more pressure from within than from others.
Because sometimes
you're the one pushing yourself to take on too much, you also need to be able
to say no to yourself. A to-do list that
is far too long to be completed in a reasonable amount of time frequently
represents this excess.
Making an
unrealistic to-do list is a demoralising way to set yourself up for failure.
Instead, consistently use your timer to help you gauge how long different tasks
take before estimating how long each item on your to-do list will take you.
Prioritise your
list of tasks now, before you start, and mark some of them off if you have
three hours to work on it and five hours' worth of work to do.
Give yourself a
"margin" when making your to-do list as well. To allow for unforeseen
circumstances and interruptions that might cause tasks to take longer to
complete, add some extra time to each task's deadline.
You're more likely
to finish it and feel better about what you've accomplished once you've
prioritised and have a more accurate idea of what you can accomplish.
Please share your ideas in the comments section below on how you try to better manage your time as a parent.